I bought this for my wife. Having a sexlife while being parents to two kids, the youngest whom finds a reason or a way to end up in our bed more often than not, is not always the easiest or longest event. This is our first toy. We just finally got a chance to use it an hour ago, after having purchased it in December as a present. Why we waited so long to experiment and use this after it had sat in the closet for months is beyond me.We love one another deeply and she is the sexiest woman I've ever know. The foreplay was warm, loving, physical and sensual as it always is, I'm a lucky man to have a woman that is still so very much attracted to me as I am to her. Blah blah I know, I'll get to the toy reviewing :) typical guy, I never read the directions so I was a bit fumbly trying to figure it out but we found a setting that was a mild and comfortable intensity and I slowly slipped it inside of her, not really knowing what to do next, that's the exciting aspect of learning together. I know my wife intimately emotionally and physically, so it didn't take long for me to find the "right there" spot and gently apply the right pressure, her face and body gave it away instantly. Less than a minute and that beautiful agony moment took her and I by quick suprise. Her vagina is amazing and she can orgasm vaginally or clitorily but usually in conjuction with me inside and her or I stimulating her clitoris. I love making love to her, I love feeling her contract around me so I was a bit sad not having our cherished shared orgasm moment but with this thing no worries after a moment to desensitize and relax she pulled me inside her and she used this toy for clitoral stimulation. The vibrating transferred into me, and we had fun taking it slow and exploring the different strength and vibrating pattern settings and more foreplay. After finding an intensity and setting that felt great for the both of us, (man it felt amazing to feel her vaginal walls vibrating around me) I began to feel her body telling me it was time again. I love to go very slow and feel everything surrounding me, she loves it too, with the shape of and size of her anatomy in conjunction with the shape and size of my anatomy it doesn't take much to be to deep, to rough and become painful, physically loving someone requires a mutual understanding of what both of you are feeling and finding pleasurable. Ugh I'm getting off track and rumbing so anyway she orgasmed intensely for the second time, me inside her this time orgasming in sync with her. So warm, so wet, her anatomy strongly contacting around my contacting and expanding and throbing anatomy, the vibration function increased both our orgasm intensities and I had to hold back the urge to expel loud moaning, no sense in having to explain to the sleeping kids that daddy wasn't murdering a bull in the bedroom. This thing is soft to the touch, perfectly shaped and positioned, and pleasing for the both of us. It's amazing. Don't wait as long as we did to explore the realm of toys and new forms of foreplay.